I recently spent a couple days with my grandma. She is 92 and still lives independently. Just as feisty as I remember from my childhood. First night there I made dinner, it was just pasta and meatballs. I opened a cupboard door to look for pots and pans and she literally just had one of every size pan. Myself, I probably have two or three of every size pan (a trait I inherited from my mom) . But here my grandma has just one of every size pan. Then when I went to find the colander to strain the pasta I realized she only had one of those too. I have three. Different sizes, different materials for different things, and it honestly got me thinking about why I have so much stuff. She has one Pyrex pan. I have two of the big ones, one medium one, and two round ones. Why do I need all this stuff (Ok these were wedding gifts)?
One of my favorite pictures. My mom, my great grandma holding me, and my grandma
It really got me thinking about her era and the time that she comes from. She's lived in the house that my grandfather built 65 years ago. She's lived in the same block for more than 70 years!
I've moved across the country, twice. I've had three homes for my kids. Five for just myself, I lived in my childhood home until I met my husband and moved away (that home sits next to my grandma's on the land they gave my parents as a wedding gift).
My grandma lived through WWII, had 2 amazing daughters, raised them while working as a post master, showed grace and love after losing my grandpa and my mom, and still to this day gives the best hugs and kisses. I'm so grateful to still have her and my dad's mom who's also in her 90's.
Yes my kids spent their spring break with their gran.
A family rite of passage, being taller than Gran
We spent a lot of time watching The Game Show Network and my kids loved the old school Match Game. She taught them how to play crazy 8s and giggled with them while I taught them to play chess.
Being able to take care of and spend time with someone who helped shape who I am is an honor. I hope to be her when I grow up. She really opened my eyes to living simply, with less things and more love.
Who has shaped your life? Have you noticed anything different about yourself as an adult and your grandparents?
My Gran is way cooler than you.
I don't have a Top 5 Things this week, exactly.
I want you to reach out to the TOP 5 people who shaped your life. Say Thank You, ask them the questions you've always wanted to know. Show them the love they've always shown you.
Until next week, much love,
Rachael